Discovering that a partner has engaged in an exit affair — an affair that appears to serve as a planned exit from the relationship — can be devastating and confusing.
A concise trauma-informed roadmap to recognize an exit affair, prioritize your safety, and begin documenting events. Use this practical guide to plan next steps and seek support.
Quick answer: Exit‑affair and midlife (identity‑linked) affair are informal, practical categories people use to describe different patterns of unfaithful relationships.
A concise, clinically informed framework to decide whether an affair signals repairability or a quiet exit. Use the checklist, monitor behaviors, and prioritize safety.